Is this a case of "My gun is bigger than your Doctrine?"
I fear your meeting with them is a sham on your part as well. You don't seem to want to talk with them, I agree, but what's the point of showing off how well armed you are? If I were the elder visiting I would certainly laugh inside at the powerplay you were trying to display. Sure, I'd leave your house pretty quick, but if that's what you want, why not just cancel the meeting and you wont have to spend money on a holster?
Guns don't intimidate elders, superior intellect intimidates elders.
W.Once